My name is Rajaneesh Nair , a permanent resident of Melbourne, Australia since March 2012. It’s my real story about how I met my wife , my own Ayswaria Prabhabathy Gopal who lives in India or how I built my relationship with her and made Ayswaria as my soul mate.
Choosing a life partner is a very important decision. Spending the rest of my life with another person can be a joyous and fulfilling experience, but I must pick someone with whom I am compatible. Thank god, my parents did that huge and tough task for me because “ARRANGE MARRIAGE “is part of Hinduism. I did not have any plans to have an arranged marriage like my parents. And a relationship was not really an option, because my parents did not allow me to date. Arranged marriages have been a common practice in India and many other cultures for centuries.
18th of March 2013
I used to call my parents every day before I go to bed because they live in very far away from me (India). As usual, I was talking with my dad on 18th of March 2013 night; he mentioned a marriage proposal for me. He told, Mr. Sreekantan Nair (Owner of one of leading matrimonial agency in the city) approached him on that day afternoon and mentioned about a girl and shown one of her photograph for me. Mr.Sreekantan Nair told my dad that that girl’s name is Ayswaria and she’s a graduate in biotechnology and worked as a lecturer in a reputed engineering collage in city. I never knew that she’s going to be my wife. My dad told me like this “my son, seems this girl is so nice and well educated. Please talk to her dad, Mr Gopalakrishnan Nair and he’ll give you her Skype id. You can talk to her and her family through Skype video call services and tell me your opinion about her whether you like this girl or not. Write it down his phone number please..
I Got Her Dad’s Phone number. Now What?
My god , I felt shy and nervous to ring Mr Gopalakrishnann Nair because I didn’t knew what to say or where to start..! I didn’t got courage to call unknown family and say hi or whatever. I ignored my dad’s proposal and decided to not call her.
21st March 2013
I stated my work early morning 6 O’clock and finished at 2.00 pm. I reached home and made a cup of coffee. After first sip of coffee, my mom’s images came to mind .Suddenly; I decided to ring my mom. Surprisingly my dad picked up my call and started shouting and was blasting like anything before say HI to him because I didn’t called Mr Gopalakrishnan Nair. Grrr … I tried my best to convince him about my state of mind but he didn’t want to listen my words at all. He said “Rajaneesh, don’t pretend yourself. Mr Gopalakrishnan Nair won’t do anything harm if you talk to him. I’d spoken with him. He’s a gentle man. You should talk to him before you take decision. It’s my order “. I felt angry and was sweating. Finally I said,” Okay dad, I will call her today evening.
Finally I did that, I called Mr Gopalakrishnan Nair at that evening but now answer, no one picked my call.... I rang him again twice but same result but I didn't had any intension to leave this matter. I called him again after an hour or something. Thank god..Someone picked my call finally. I got some courage and I asked,
“Hello, my name is Rajaneesh from Melbourne, Australia . I was wondering if I could please speak to Mr Gopalakrishnan Nair. Thank you. " …
A female voice replied “you are talking to Ayswaria . Mr Gopalakrishnan Nair is my dad. Pls hold on, I’ll put him through”
Oh god, its Ayswaria...! She got a nice and soothing sound. I hold my breaths and continued
“Okay, thanks “
She put me hold for more than ten seconds and my heart was beating heavily. Finally, Mr Gopalan Nair came,
“Hello, Gopalakrishnan Nair speaking, how can I help you?
My heart stopped for a while. What to say? Recovered from that terror and said “Hello, my name is Rajaneesh from Melbourne, Australia. Hope, my dad, Mr Sankaran Nair had spoken to you regarding a marriage proposal for your daughter. My dad told me, you like to talk to me
through Skype Video call”
I paused my conversation for a moment and was waiting for his replay
Mr. Gopalakrishnan Nair continued with a calm voice “ well , I am not good with emails or Skype or whaterver you guys using. My daughter knows better than me, Ayswaria will give her Skype id, Pls hold on, let me put her through”
Suddenly, I heard that soft female sound again “Hi again, It’s my Ayswaria. Please tell me your
Skype id; I’ll add you in my friend’s list. Then I’ll ring you through Skype.
I felt so comfortable with their pleasing voices. I felt, I know them before or they are
familiar to me… I don’t know why like that… Mean while, I turned my lap top ON and as Anyway, I shared my Skype id with her and within second, I got a ‘Friend Request in Skype from her…
Look, she’s calling… She’s so quick. My hand moved automatically and accepted her Skype
video call.Afraid of what impression I will make? It's a nerve-wracking situation of meeting
Ayswaria and her parents for the first time. They may have unique expectations. Anyway, I
answered her Skype call and her face became visible on my laptop screen.
WOW. I saw her first time, I feel shy and couldn't look her in her face.I tried hard to
ignore eye contact with her, but I couldn't . I'll never forget the first time that I heard
I said -" hello Ayswaria, How are you?
She answered with a marvelous smile -" I am fine, Rajaneesh, thanks, how about you"
I need to say something to her question -" Same here, Ayswaria, thanks.
Silence everywhere, I don't know what to say or ask... I got black out completely...!
I got my rhythm back somehow and asked after 10-15 seconds later - “may I talk to your dad
please." Seems, she’s waiting for that words from me, she answered suddenly "Yes, please,
please hold on, let me put him through"
Suddenly her dad's face appeared on laptop screen. He said hi and started a formal
conversation. After telling all their whereabouts, he shared the details of Ayswaria's academic
qualifications and work experiences and I did the same. Meanwhile, he told, Ayswaria's mother want to talk to me and I told him to go ahead. Her mom is so lovely and addressed me, “how
are you, my son? That was pretty impressive for me. No more fear, or stress .! We I felt so relaxed and comfortable with each other. We were Communicating authentically, I knew, that's the
only way you'll get to know each other. I'd spoken with Ayswaria once more before I said SEE YOU SOON to everyone. She asked anything in personal but told me to take care with a charming smile.
I need a life partner for marriage who is capable of supporting me when I face difficulties in life. Whatever may be the situation, she should be fully committed and understanding. There were thousands of things came in my mind. The truth is I liked that family and girl too. But I don't
know anything about her -character, hobbies, what to do? Who knows, whether she agree with this marriage proposal
I've to admit, I've lots of limitations, I'm a skinny person, not a handsome at all. She may have lots expectations about her soul mate. I'm the right person for her? I haven't seen her in
real but through Skype video call- is that enough to know her physical appearance very well? I was thinking about this marriage proposal for the whole night. Thousands of questions were
arising from my mind. Enough, I turned my bed lamp off and fallen asleep very fast.
I'd started my work early morning next day with a happy heart. I'd a great energy to do
everything. Whenever I looked at clock, time is running slowly. I was eagerly waiting to finish so that I can go home and call my dad and ask whether he got a call from Ayswaria's dad or not. I
left my work place at 2 O' straight away after finish my work and rushed into my house; I had a quick shower, made a cup of coffee and got seated on lounge and called my dad. He picked up my call and was talking to me as normal. On the middle of the conversation, he said "Yes,
Ayswaia's dad called us today morning. They are very happy with this proposal. Ayswaria likes
you and said expressed her interest to her parents to marry you, Rajaneesh. Now everything is clear from Ayswaria's family side. Ayswaria and her parents said "OK”. Now it's your turn to
express your opinion, my son"
Again silence for a minute between me and my parents.
My dad continued" we're not putting you under pressure, my son. Please take your time and take a wise decision. We're not in hurry, okay? I nodded my head and said- “dad, I want to talk to her personality. Can I get her mobile number please”? Why I said like that? Interesting thing is that I didn't have any plan to ask her personal number. Suddenly dad answered - "yes my son, I will get her number for you. I need to call Mr Gopalakrishnan Nair for that. Please call me after five minutes. I hanged up my call straight away and stated thinking about what my dad told me just before. After five minutes, I rang him again. Before I say anything, he told me to write her cell phone number in my phone book and I did without asking anything." Rajaneesh, You
can call her and decide whether you want to marry her or not but don't take too much time or don't hurt her with giving some hopes. Best of luck, my son”. I got her cell number. I saved that number in my cell phone as well. There is a problem now- when to call or what to say or ask?
I Got Her Phone number. Now What?
I finished my cooking bit early then usual and finished dinner at 10 o'clock. Seated on
lounge and watched some television shows for half an hour. As per planning, I call her at 10 .30 pm (Indian time 6.00pm) and said, it's me Rajaneesh from Australia. She said hello. She doesn't seemed busy or rushed. I was so confident, comfortable and relaxed. I showed it through my
voice.Luckily, we engaged with good small talk. It helped us conversation feel at ease
immediately, because we talk about ourselves, our likes and our dislikes. Both of us have no idea about each other before, so we helped each other open up by asking the right questions. So we started talking about our work or leisure activities start for happy conversations. We made open discussions about children (if, when, how many), child-rearing, money, work, religion, where to live, and relationships with extended family. The purpose of these discussions was to
uncover any fundamental differences between me so I can decide if I want to continue the relationship. That plan worked very well, the conversation was interesting and lasted for more than 40 minutes. I really enjoyed the conversation and would love to meet her again; I expressed
that idea too...
Wow... The chemistry got clicked; both of us got smitten by each other…!
I realize, choosing a life partner is one of the most critical decisions we will ever make in life. I took some time to sit by myself and determined if she possesses the qualities I desire. Two qualities I should seriously consider; honesty and openness/flexibility. I found these qualities and I found some more qualities - a good friend, a lover on Ayswaria. It was very easy for me to find a conclusion, I took a right and strong decision; I found my soul mate that’s my Ayswaria. I am going to marry her
I didn’t waste even single second after I took my decision; I called my own beloved brother,
Mr Roopesh and expressed my interest to marry Ayswaria. He conveyed his greetings and blessings to me and passed this news to my parents at once. Oh god, everything changed suddenly. My dad called Mr. Gopalakrishnan Nair and shared my decision with him. They were in heaven, they exchanged infinite amount of happiness, and both of them started making future plans to conduct pre-marriage rituals according to Hinduism.
I planned to develop and maintain a successful intimate relationship with my Ayswaria even I am not with her. I’ve a girl now, she's far away from me – we live on two different continents/more than 6000 kilometers. Oh god, we missed each other dearly, long distance relationship is so hard. I could feel her being on the other side, thinking of me and being in love with me. This was all I could ask for. I wish to meet her in real and hold her hands but it’s difficult to be together, but we fell in love madly and blindly. Honestly, direct communication is a key part of our relationship. We started making video calls through Skype services more than five hours a day .We both felt comfortable because we expressed our needs, fears, and desires. Trust and bonds are strengthened because we opened our heart to each other to understand physically and mentally. I felt much better after sharing my struggles with my Ayswaria it’s a way of being honest and authentic. I made myself a team in this. We taken on challenges together, it’s easier to handle the physical distance and we got closer and surely learnt a lot about each other.
14th April 2013
My parents and Ayswaria’s parents sat together and fixed the size of wedding, venues and wedding date in consultation with astrologists. My marriage got fixed on 17TH of October 2013 at Sri Moolam Club Wedding Hall, Thiruvananthapuram, Kerala ,India. Sri Moolam Club’s one of the best and expensive wedding hall in the city.
21st April 2013
Our family arranged a pre wedding ceremony on 21st April 2013. Around 300 people gathered there for that ritual. As per traditional Hindu culture, my wedding ceremony started with the exchange of horoscope by the parents of mine and Ayswaria. What a luck, I knew that my horoscope matched perfectly with Ayswaria . That auspicious date of marriage was finalized and declared in front of our relatives and public
Meanwhile, I’d Set a budget to keep my wedding wishes realistic. I booked the flight to India for 12th October 2013. I will reach five days before my wedding and will meet my future
wife…! We both were excited on our honeymoon. Luckily, I’ve ten days of complimentary accommodation on Luxurious five star Hyatt hotels in any part of the world because I am an employee of Grand Hyatt, Melbourne. I told this to Ayswaria. She told me to make our honeymoon colorful and luxurious. I gave her full freedom to plan our honeymoon so that she’d chosen our honeymoon destinations in various cities India (Delhi, Goa and Agra). I transferred money through Western Union Money transfer so that she booked the flights to all the way. I booked hotel rooms with Hyatt in New Delhi and Goa and booked hotel room with Taj Hotels in Agra. . I applied annual leave for four weeks and hyatt management sanctioned it with lot of greetings and blessings.
Ayswaria and me did lots of researches, design and order our wedding invitation letters from a long list. We decided to buy wedding rings and chains together once I reach India because it symbolize our devotion to each other. I started purchasing gifts and chocolates and healthcare product for Ayswaria and her family. I waken up early On 11th of October even I got off from my work because I need to do packing and prepare for my journey. Ayswaria helped and guided me through video calls until midnight. I was happy of the fact that I am not alone any more she is taking care of even my small needs and wishes..
12th of October 2013
Wow, I am ready for marriage. My baggage is ready, I kept my passport and Flight tickets safely in my backpack. As per booking, Taxi came at 7.00. He dropped me Melbourne International Airport at 8’ O clocks. My flight was scheduled at 10.30 so that I had enough time to relax and grab some bite to eat or do duty-free shopping. I am going to Trivandrum , India via Singapore. I boarded aircraft at 10 O clock with lots of dreams. i reached Trivandrum at 9.30 pm . I will never forget how thrill I felt. Flight attendants let me out off the plane. After clearing migration processes at airport, I came out and was searching for my parents, my brother and my friends. No one was there. Suddenly, someone called my name and I looked at direction. It was Ayswaria. She was coming towards me like an angel. I’ve to admit, she’s so gorgeous to me. I simply walked over to her with a smile. When I reached close to her she gave a royal shake hands like she’s known me for years and as I meant everything to her. That first passionate touch, (for real now, not on Skype) that says more than 1000 words… That intense emotion when I finally see each other and touch her for one full minute….
I held her in my arms and I felt like the suffering is about to end - Then she gave me a bunch of RED ROSES… For those moments, She made me happiest man in the world. Oh god, I have to admit, I love our meetings; they are the best moments of my life . It’s just a magnificent moment that it’s worth the entire struggle and the suffering of being apart… She introduced me her parents and her brother. I put them at ease by showing them what a charming, friendly person I am. I gave them a firm handshake. Not to mention, when it firm, it shows I mean business. They asked about my journey and marriage preparations. I answered all of their questions with a polite manner .It's a given that I want Ayswaria’s parents to tell her what a good catch I am. But at the same time, I can't go overboard. My aim was to get along with her both parents and get on their good sides and I succeeded on that mission .I scanned through the crowd for my family .Ayswaria noticed it and said, “Rajaneesh, your family will be late for 10 minutes because of heavy traffic jam”. she acted wisely. I really got disappointed and sad because I was eager to my family. My excitement was building; suddenly I saw mom and brother running towards me. Dad was there too. They embraced me tight with tears .They made my eyes wet though. As I walked through , my sister in law, and friends all raced from in front of the main gate.
Time to leave. I closed the deal and left Ayswaria and her parents with a good impression. I remain confident, let them know that I had a great time and gave them another exit handshake – the kind that said, I can take care of Ayswaria. I left airport with a happy heart.As per Hindu marriage rituals, Ayswaria invited me and my family for a lunch in her place on 13th of October 2013I accepted her invitation and I reached home at 11 O Clock along with my whole family.As soon as I met Ayswaria, I looked her in the eye, smile and offered a soft handshakes. She looked so pretty with her outfits. She and her mom welcomed us royally. She gave me a clear picture about her parents and family, including what line of work they are or were in, whether they're serious or have a sense of humor, whether they prefer people who are outgoing or more reserved, etc. Plenty of her relatives were there to meet me. My small talk skills came in handy; I used them, you're going to need them. I never felt comfortable with Ayswaria’s family and relatives. I asked lot of questions and show interest in their family life. They had a list of questions for you as well and I answered the questions politely, and tried to relate them back to her parents . After some quality times, Ayswaria invited us for lunch she served food just for me. That was one of thousands reasons to love her madly and blindly .Her mom served food for rest of my family. I love her family at once. I want to be considered as their son. Unfortunatly, I couldn’t talk to Ayswaria much because of huge crowd was always behind me. We left her home around 3.00 pm.
Both Ayswaria and I was damn busy on next four days. we met in the city with our parents. We had little bit lovely moments during that time, we hold our hands together many times without parents knowledge did shopping together, bought wedding rings met some of my schoolmates, friends and families, oh god… I was sick and tired of that busy life.
16th of October 2013
My brother , Mr Roopesh and our friends worked very hard for my wedding preparations. Everything was ready. Most of our close relatives and friends visited me during that day. i was so thrilled because my best close friends from various cities in india came and visited me. (from Bangalore , New Delhi and Kochi ) I arranged a decent accommodation for them at a beach resort near my place. I called Ayswaria couple of times, she was also having a busy schedules just like meI called her one more time before I went to bed. We’d more than five minutes of chat, we were exhausted, tired of busy day. We prayed for each other for a wonderful beginning for the next day, our wedding day.
17th of October 2013
Oh god. My dream day arrived finally. The most exciting days in my life, my wedding day. I waken up with a happy heart. The marriage took place during the day between 12.05 to 12.25 PM.Before proceeding to Sree Mulam Club ( venue of wedding ) I visited couple of temples and seek parents’ , my brother’s and elder’s blessings .
I was wearing Kerala traditional outfits that is Dhoti and shirt. We reached at wedding venue at 10 am with more than 500 people , Now I am visualizing my special day at SrI Moolam Club, Thiruvananthapuram in the classically designed wedding hall. Ayswaria’s family received us in a traditional way. My eyes were searching for Ayswaria. Someone told me, she’ll appear on the time of wedding only…! It was a big wedding, more than 1500 people were there for this ceremony . I was too busy and were interacted with my relatives or friends. Around 11.50 pm, my brother came to me and guided me to the wedding stage / raised platform to start wedding ritual. I addressed the audience of 1500 people and circled the wedding stage for three times and seated on specially designed seat for wedding .Couple of minutes later, Ayswaria appeared on stage.She was escorted by her female cousins and aunts with thalams ( plates filled with a small lamp and other symbolic articles ).She also addressed the audience, circled the wedding stage for three times and seated just beside me. She was stunning beautiful with her wedding outfit that is Saree and her wedding ornaments. I looked at clock, its 12.04 pm… my hear beats raised than ever, I am getting married within 60 seconds with Ayswaria who was sitting close to me. That auspicious and divine moments arrived.. As per my father’s instructions, I tied a thali around Ayswaria’s neck. The thali is traditionally a golden chain with a gold pendant hung from it. The pendant is a small one, made in the shape of a banyan leaf. What a stunning moments.. Then me and Ayswaria exchanged our weddings rings. After that, I gifted Ayswaria a Manthra Kodi ( Kerala traditional bridal dress) It was really awesome experience. After that, there was a long photo session with all of our friends and familes .. Several other rituals are alsobserved, most of them are really traditional.
When the photo sessions over, we had our wedding feast. Its so traditional ,colourful, splendid and gorgeous.. Ayswaria was wearing the Manthra Kodi . The traditional vegetarian meal, called Sadya, is a fine blend of six tastes- sweet, sour, salty, bitter, pungent, and astringent.It consists of rice and tasty curries served on a plantain leaf. An order is kept in the serving of the dishes.Snacks like banana chips are also part of the feast. A variety of Payasams or sweet desserts will be served at the end of the meal.Everything over now. Ayswaria and me said goodbye to her parents ,her friends and all of our relatives .We reache home around 5.OO pm .We didn’t had time to talk each other because we need to get ready for our wedding reception. It was held same day at Sri Neelakeshi Temple Auditorium which is near my place. Reception was scheduled from 6.00 pm to 9.pm. Ayswaria and me were wearing north Indian outfits.We received our society for the first time as a married couple. We provide Ayswaria’s choice of typical Kerala traditional food and drink. We were so tired because It was long, busy day for everyone. We left the place as soon as possible. Once we reached home, we were hury to go to bed not because of first night, damn tired. Both of us said good night to everyone in the family. I entered my room. It was decorated with jasmine flower and someone kept a basket of fruits.
First night. I was waiting for Ayswaria to come . Couple of minutes later, she entered my room and she shut the door behind her. Both Ayswaria and me were wearing traditional out fits. She came to my arms . Hugging a girl for the first time was so exciting and terrifying . we did a long chat without any movements. What a blessed night. I felt so special joyous and romantic on that night.. we shared intimate moments and emotions with each to establish a deeper mutual relationship and let our love grow. We slept in each other arms with proud and pride. Following days were awesome and marvelous because we always had quality time to know each other. We visited her family on 20th of October 2013 with some gifts.
Honeymoon Begins
It’s the most romantic holiday of my life with exciting destinations.
21st of Oct 2013
We started our honeymoon journey with Alleppy House boat tour with parents and our brothers. Yes, our families were there but we found very best private time to worship each other bodies and souls. We booked a House boat which is giant country craft measured up to 80 feet length . We boarded on that House boat at 12 pm on 22nd of October 2013 That house boat had fully furnished four bed rooms with sun desk, private balcony with comfortable chair , kitchen and toilets for each bed rooms and separate rest room. We had a great time with our family. That lovely occasion helped us a lot to know each other. We enjoyed the spectacular beauty of backwater life with marvelous fresh water fish food. We left the boat on 23rd October 2013. We spent 22 hours with that beautiful House boat. With lots of Lovely experiences, we reached home same day at 6 O’clock.
24th October 2013
Honey moon continues …! It started from 24th October 2013. That was a heavenly trip..That gave us time to recover from wedding stress. We were only strangers a couple of days back become a part of each other during our honeymoon. As per schedule, I celebrated my honeymoon in style at Luxurious Hyatt Hotels from wandering the streets of New Delhi to relaxing on the beaches of Goa and Taj Mahal in Agra. We were in paradise , we had peaceful times in relaxing places. It’s all about romantic and intimate moments in between that helped to start my marriage on the right foot. It was a trip like no other, a trip whose fragrance will stay in your life forever. The trip may last for 5 to 10 days, but the memories, impressions, experiences, bonds, comfort levels, romantic connections, affection and confidence developed during this trip will last forever. We came back from our dream trip on 31st of Oct 2013
07 November 2013
21 days.. We stayed together for 21 days. It was the time when the I shown Ayswaria that she is the queen of my life, and Ayswaria shown me that I am the king of her heart. This was the day I left my soul mate alone for the first time. I left India without my wife or with broken heart..I came back to Australia with a heavy heart. I realized the truth that we are going to live on two different continents until she gets visa to live with me in Australia , and can‘t have breakfasts together or spontaneous weekend trips to the sea. We waken up with tears. Silence everywhere. We packed my baggage with wet eyes. I heart was bleeding just like my eyes were shedding tears all the time. My flight scheduled to Singapore at 10.40 pm and I reached airport with Ayswaria and our families at 7.30 pm. I lost my controlled and cried like a child in her arms… I felt alone than ever.. I could her hearts whisper “please Don’t leave me,” .. My god.. What a sad and bad moments… There is always some madness in our love, but there is also some reason in madness… I hugged her gently for couple of minutes before I said bye to her. She was crying heavily just like me. I lifted her face and gave a final kiss on her four head and told, take care my heart for me because I am leaving my heart with you now”.. I couldn’t stand anymore, it was very hard to look at her crying face, but I said, ‘’don’t worry, Aiswaria, I won’t leave you alone here for a long time. We’ll lodge partner visa to migrate to Australia for you pretty soon. You’ll be in my arms in Australia pretty soon… I saw that royal smile on her face once more and gave a kiss on my right cheek and said “yes , my love, we’ll do it as soon as possible. Will meet you in Australia pretty soon, have a pleasant journey , honey “ Those words gave us hope and strength to say bye to each other
At first glance, a long-distance relationship appears full of excitement, but the stress of dealing with the unknown, and putting one’s life on hold until you’re together again can cause all sorts of health upsets, both emotionally and physically. I am not satisfied with that at all. I am pretty anxious to get together. When time and money cooperate, the best tonic to keep love alive across the miles is being together. The key to avoiding destructive actions or thoughts is to keep the relationship on track. It takes plenty of effort, but the results speak for themselves. Maintaining the lines of healthy communication between in-person visits is a breeze with today’s social media. Facebook, instant messaging (IM) and Skype make communication easy and affordable. But I feel so lonely without my Ayswaria. waiting for her arrival to Australian soil with crying and weak heart..
For me, marriage is more than just a ring on my finger -- it’s a bond between me and Ayswaria that should grow over time and add value to my life. I need her presence here in Australia as soon as possible to fulfill my dreams or goals. I cannot take any decisions without my princess. Now I am not single anymore. We are discussing about our future in a professional way every day. We have lots of plans for our future because it lays here in Australia. We praying very hard all the time and waiting desperately for Ayswaria’s partner visa from Australian Immigration Departments. I am waiting for those moments since I came back from India after I got married. My guardian angel will come to my life and will be complete my life to achieve my goals like establish my family life in Australia , buy our house , my kids and my investments and a lots. I am working hard now for establishing myself with my wife. She’s also well qualified to get a good job easily. My god, my dear Australian Immigration authorities, please allow us to live together as soon as possible..
